Whether you’re old, young, handsome, ugly, skinny, or chubby, you can 100% meet n fuck tonight by a fuckbuddy of your choice in a world where anything is possible and it all starts with these steps.
Make Yourself Available
This girl isn’t going to just show up at your doorstep with a bow on her head while you’re sitting at home in your sweats. You have to let her know that you exist. Make an Instagram post or create a profile on a dating app.
Include a little blurb about yourself that makes you come off as a cool and mysterious guy who cares deeply about his dog and wants the world to know that he’s ready to have some fun.
Whether this is true or not, you’ll be showing girls that you’re there for a good time and possibly even a long time. Apps like Tinder are for girls who (for the most part) are trying to fuck. They know this, and you know this. That’s why making sure they know you’re there for the same reason is important.
Take the Plunge
OK, you’ve either a matched on a dating app, or you found a cute girl who you’re interested in on Instagram. Now is the time to make a move. It’s important to display a decent amount of BDE.
You can do this by just saying ‘hi’ or maybe even just ‘what’s up.’ Even though this isn’t the most eye-catching message, it is enough to show a girl that you’re interested, calm and confident enough to say something.
Taking this first step is crucial to the plan that’ll get a fuckbuddy in your bed by the end of the night. Ask her if she wants to grab drinks tonight.
A good strategy I found works well even if it doesn’t work, is the ‘If you’re not busy’ move. It combines the ballsy move of asking a girl out with the assumption that if she says no, you don’t care.
The “if you’re not busy”
Anyone can send a DM, but not a lot of guys know how to send the perfect DM. Start it off with a light joke, maybe a reference to one of their pictures or even a bio reference. Getting her to laugh/reply is the hardest part. If she replies, then you’ve already got your foot in the door.
Next, you’ll want to throw out something like, “Hey I got my shift covered at the orphanage covered tonight… You wanna go grab a drink or ten?”
Then follow it up with something like “If you’re not busy doing ____ I mean.” That blank space could be a joke, or maybe she previously mentioned something else she likes to do (bio reference would be good). It gives her an out without saying that she explicitly doesn’t want to spend time with you.
If she’s down, then you’re on your own from there. But if she’s down, then you’ve just secured yourself a one-way ticket to fucktown through something as simple as a DM. Even if it doesn’t work out, at least you learned something. Go get ’em, tiger.