Category: Style

I’m Kayla Sox, and I test beauty stuff the way I live—messy mornings, sweaty days, loud hair tools, and real plans on the calendar. Folks ask me this all the time: hair first or makeup first? If you want a classic breakdown of the pros and cons, the editors at L’Oréal Paris weigh in here. For an even deeper dive, check out my detailed recap of the experiment on Girindus.

Short answer: it depends on heat, time, and your skin. But I’ll show you what happened when I tested both. With real mornings. Real gear. Real sweat.

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My usual routine (and why I bend the rules)

Most days, I do makeup first. My skin sets better when my face is cool. If I blow-dry first, I sweat, and my foundation slides. Not cute.

But I switch it up when I’m using hot rollers, doing a big blowout, or working with curls. Those need time, heat, and patience. And patience doesn’t wear mascara yet.

Here’s the thing: both orders work. The trick is knowing which day you’re having.

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Test Day #1: Fast work morning, 15 minutes flat

• What I did: Makeup first, hair second.
• Products I used: Milk Hydro Grip primer, Maybelline Fit Me foundation, Benefit 24-HR Brow Gel, Urban Decay All Nighter. Then I hit roots with Batiste dry shampoo and tossed my hair in a low pony.
• Result: Clean base, no sweat mustache, no hairline dents. I felt pulled together on Zoom.

When I tried hair first on another busy morning, my cheeks got a light film from hairspray (Kenra 25). Powder sat weird. I had to wipe and start again. Lost time.

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Test Day #2: August wedding in Atlanta (hot and humid)

• What I did: Hair first. Big barrel curls with my Dyson Airwrap. Kenra 25 to set. I let the curls cool while I did makeup.
• Makeup after: Tatcha primer, NARS Light Reflecting foundation, cream blush, then a thin powder and All Nighter spray.
• Result: Curls held. No sweat while I did my base because the hot tools were done. My blush stayed smooth. For more tips tailored to weddings and special occasions, Edith James Beauty has a helpful guide.

I tried makeup first before a different summer event. Then I curled after. My face got warm. My bronzer went patchy. Lesson learned.

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Test Day #3: Gym, then quick brunch

• Plan: I don’t do full makeup before a workout. Not worth it.
• What I did: Sunscreen first (Supergoop Unseen), clear brow gel, lip balm. Workout. Quick rinse. Then I styled hair fast with the Revlon One-Step and did makeup last.
• Result: Fresh face. No clogged feel. Hair looked bouncy. Simple and sane.

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Curly hair days need their own rules

When I wear my curls, I do hair first. I wash, add Curlsmith Curl Defining Styling Soufflé, and diffuse. If I do makeup first, the heat from the diffuser can melt brow gel and make my T-zone tacky. So I let curls set, then I tap on concealer, blush, and a little powder. Works every time.

Tiny fix if you do makeup first by mistake: use a cool setting on your diffuser and hold a clean towel over your brows and cheeks. It helps.

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Bangs? Do them first. Always.

Bangs set fast. If you wait, they lock in weird. I spray a heat protectant (Tresemmé Heat Tamer), blow-dry my bangs with a small round brush, clip them to cool, then do my base. That five minutes saves the whole look.

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Oily skin vs. dry skin: what I learned

• Oily or sweaty skin: Hair first, then a quick cleanse or micellar wipe, then makeup. This clears hairspray dust from your cheeks.
• Dry skin: Makeup first is fine. Let hydrating primer sit while you start hair prep, then go back to makeup.

I have combo skin. On hot days, I treat it like oily. On calm days, I treat it like dry. Easy.

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Updos and rollers: little tweaks

• Hot rollers or a tight updo? I do hair first so the shape sets right. While rollers cool, I do makeup. Then I finish the updo.
• Worried about powder in your hairline? I wrap a soft headband over the front. It shields curls and keeps flyaways down.

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Mistakes I made so you don’t have to

• I once blew out my hair, got sweaty, then put on foundation right away. It pilled. Now I cool my face with a mini fan for 60 seconds before makeup. Problem solved.
• I’ve done full makeup, then used the Dyson. My brow wax softened and smudged. Now I style first on hot days or use less heat.
• Hairspray fog can coat your cheeks. I spray away from my face or aim into the air and walk through it.

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Quick rule of thumb you can remember

• Hot tools or humid day? Hair first.
• Short, cool morning with a simple pony? Makeup first.
• Curly wash day? Hair first.
• Gym before plans? Makeup last.
• Using rollers? Hair first, makeup while they set.

And you know what? If you run hot, pick the order that keeps your face cool. That one wins.

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My simple 10-minute flow (what I actually do)

• Weekday work:

  1. Makeup base and brows
  2. Dry shampoo and quick brush
  3. Cream blush, mascara, set spray

• Big event:

  1. Hair with heat protectant (Kérastase Defense Thermique or Tresemmé Heat Tamer)
  2. Let it cool; then makeup
  3. Finish hair with Kenra 25 or Living Proof Flex

• Curly day:

  1. Leave-in + Curlsmith gel
  2. Diffuse; hands off while it sets
  3. Light makeup after

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Products I trust from real use

• Heat protectant: Kérastase Genesis Defense Thermique; Tresemmé Heat Tamer
• Dry shampoo: Batiste; Living Proof Perfect Hair Day
• Hairspray: Kenra Volume Spray 25
• Primer: Milk Hydro Grip; Tatcha The Silk Canvas
• Foundation: Maybelline Fit Me; NARS Light Reflecting
• Brow: Benefit 24-HR Brow Setter
• Sunscreen: Supergoop Unseen or Glowscreen
• Setting spray: Urban Decay All Nighter
• Curls: Curlsmith Soufflé; Not Your Mother’s Curl Talk

If you’re curious about why these formulas actually work—the polymers in heat protectants, the fixatives in setting sprays—check out the easy science primers on Girindus.

I’ve used each of these many times, in heat, on travel, and during long shoots. They’re steady.

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Polished look, real plans

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My final take

Most days, I start with makeup. But if heat is involved—or curls, rollers, or bangs—I start with hair. Cool skin makes makeup last. Cool hair makes shape last. Pick what needs the heat first.

It’s not fancy. It just works. And honestly, that’s all I want when I’m rushing out the door with one shoe on and a latte I haven’t even sipped yet.

You know what? Ruby Rose surprised me. I thought it was just cute, low-cost makeup. But I used it for a full month—school runs, sweaty errands, one wedding, and a string of Zoom calls. I kept notes. I made a few mistakes. I fixed them. Now I’ve got thoughts. Spoiler: I wasn’t the only one curious; Girindus also did a full-month wear test, and their Ruby Rose makeup review lines up with a lot of my own notes. If you’re still wondering whether the line is genuinely worth the hype, Edwin von Holy’s in-depth Ruby Rose makeup review offers another month-long perspective.

Quick skin info: I’m combo skin. Oily T-zone, dry cheeks. Warm olive tone. Summer shade shifts a bit darker on me.

What I Actually Used

• Feels Foundation (warm olive shade; my summer match)
• Feels Loose Banana Powder
• Soft Nude Eyeshadow Palette (mattes + a few shimmers)
• Trópico Mascara (length and curl)
• Soft Matte Lipstick in a brick red (very “ruby,” very bold)
• Glow Highlighter Palette (four pans, warm leaning)

I grabbed most of this at a little Latin beauty shop near me and a couple pieces online. Real Techniques sponge did the heavy lifting. For eyes, I used a Zoeva 227 and a small e.l.f. tapered brush.

First Impressions: Smooth, But Watch The Clock

The Feels Foundation goes on fast. It spreads easy with a damp sponge. Medium coverage right away. It blurs pores on my nose. No heavy mask look. It does have a light sweet scent. Not strong, but there. I noticed it dries a touch deeper after ten minutes. Not wild oxidation, but a half shade. So if you’re between shades, pick the lighter one.

The banana powder is soft and brightens. On my under eyes, it looks smooth if I dust lightly. If I “bake,” it gets dry and creasy. So I stopped baking. My fine lines said thank you.

Real Days, Real Wear

• Hot farmer’s market Saturday: I was out for four hours in sticky heat. The foundation held for about three hours before my T-zone got shiny. I pressed a tissue on my nose. That helped. By hour five, it looked lived-in, not ruined.

• Mask test at the dentist: Some transfer on the inside of the mask. Not awful, but it moved.

• Cousin’s evening wedding: I did primer + a thin layer of foundation + banana powder + setting spray (I used NYX Matte). Photos came out clean. No weird flash. My highlighter looked glowy, not blinding. By hour seven, my nose needed a tiny touch-up.

• Zoom marathon day: Soft Nude palette mattes blended easy. The taupe and warm brown shades played nice. The shimmers needed a finger or a damp brush to pop. Dry brush looked meh.

• Burger test (the true test): The Soft Matte Lipstick lasted through coffee and a salad. It gave up after a messy burger. I had to reapply. It wears down even, though. No ring around the lips.

• Gym stop: Trópico Mascara lifted my lashes and held curl. I saw a little smudge under the lower lash line around hour seven. Nothing scary. Came off easy with micellar water.

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Little Things I Noticed

• The foundation likes thin layers. If I stack it heavy, it can look flat around my mouth.
• The powder is great for T-zone. Under eyes? Go gentle.
• The highlighter palette has one shade that leans glittery. I mix it with the softer gold. Then it looks smooth.
• The lipstick feels comfy, a bit powdery. No plasticky taste. Love that.
• The palette leans warm. If you want cool mauves, you may need another palette.

What Worked Great

• Price that doesn’t make your eye twitch
• Shade match looked natural on warm skin
• Soft mattes that blend without fuss
• Mascara that lifts without crunchy lashes
• Lipstick that feels light and looks rich

Beauty Crew has also rounded up Ruby Rose's favourite makeup products if you need a quick hit-list for your next haul.

What Bugged Me

• Light scent in the foundation (not a deal breaker, but it’s there)
• Slight deepening after it sets, so shade pick is tricky
• Shimmers need help to shine (finger or damp brush)
• Powder can age the under eyes if you pack it on

My Quick Ruby Rose Routine

• Moisturizer + sunscreen (let it set)
• Thin layer of Feels Foundation with a damp sponge
• Tiny dot more only where I need it (red spots, chin)
• Dust banana powder on T-zone with a small brush
• Soft Nude mattes in crease; shimmer pressed with finger
• Trópico Mascara, one coat, curl first
• Brick red Soft Matte Lipstick tapped on, then full swipe
• A light swipe of gold highlighter on cheekbones and brow bone

Side note: if you’re torn on whether to style your hair or do your makeup first, the experiment in this hair-versus-makeup timing guide settles the debate.

Total time: 12 minutes. If I’m late? I skip shadow and just do mascara and lips.

Who I Think Will Like It

• Beginners who want makeup that blends fast
• Teens and college folks on a budget
• Combo or oily skin types who want soft matte
• Warm or olive tones who struggle to find a match

If you’re very dry, you can still use it. Just prep well. I mix a drop of hydrating serum into the foundation in winter. That fixes the tight look.

A Quick Side Note

For all-day, zero-budge events, I still reach for my “tank” foundation (Estée Lauder Double Wear) with a stronger setting spray. But for normal days, Ruby Rose feels nicer on the skin. Lighter. Friendlier. If you’re curious about the chemistry that keeps pigments stable and skin-friendly, this concise guide from Girindus is a fascinating rabbit hole.

Final Take

Is it perfect? Nope. But it’s good. And it looks good without much work. My keepers are the Trópico Mascara and the Soft Matte Lipstick. The Feels Foundation is my weekday face—school run, errands, desk life. The powder stays in my bag for a shiny nose. The palette is a warm neutral workhorse.

Score: 4 out of 5. Budget beauty that pulls its weight. Honestly, that’s all I wanted. And it did that.

I have acne-prone skin. Combo, with an oily T-zone and fussy cheeks. I’m also picky. I want makeup that covers, looks like skin, and doesn’t make me break out two days later. Big ask, right? Still, I found a few keepers. And a few “nope, never again” items. If you’re curious about the full rundown, I originally broke everything down in this acne-safe makeup guide—receipts, regrets, and all.

Here’s what I used, how I wore it, and what my face did after. Real talk, no fluff.

My Skin, My Rules

• Shade zone: light-medium with neutral-olive undertones
• Breakout style: small clogged bumps on my cheeks, chin cysts if I push it
• Triggers: heavy fragrance, coconut oil, sleeping in makeup (yep, learned that one the hard way)

I’m not a derm. I’m just someone who has to live with this face. And wash it. A lot.

How I Test So I Don’t Regret It

• Day 1–2: I patch test on one cheek. Just a thin layer.
• Day 3–5: Full face on a normal work week.
• Bonus stress test: Hot yoga or a humid day outside.
• I keep the rest of my routine the same, and I clean my brushes. That part matters more than we think.

You know what? Waiting 10 minutes between skincare and makeup also helps. My pores act calmer.

The Keepers: Products That Didn’t Break Me Out

Foundation: BareMinerals Original Loose Powder SPF 15 (Shade: Medium Beige 12)

This one surprised me. It’s a powder, but it didn’t look chalky. I buffed it in with a fluffy brush. Two light layers. Coverage went from “soft blur” to “yes, I slept last night.”
Wear test: 8 hours at my desk, then a quick grocery run. No new bumps the next morning.
Note: My cheeks felt a tiny bit itchy for the first hour the first time. It passed. No rash.

Tinted Sunscreen: Tower 28 SunnyDays (Shade: 20 Mulholland)

On lazy days, this is my face. It’s a tint with SPF 30. I wore it to a Saturday farmer’s market, sweating over peaches. It didn’t sting or clog. It did transfer a bit onto my mask, but my skin stayed calm.
I set my T-zone with a touch of powder, and it holds up better.

Concealer: NARS Soft Matte Complete Concealer (Shade: Custard)

Pot concealer scares me, but this one works. I press it over spots with a tiny brush, then tap with a finger. No dragging. No cake. It didn’t build little white bumps around my nose like some do.
Gym test: still there after cycling class, which felt unfair but also great.

Primer: Hourglass Veil Mineral Primer

Silky but light. Fills texture just enough. I use half a pea-size only on my T-zone. No new clogs after a full week. Pricey? Yes. But my makeup lay smoother, and I used less foundation.

Setting Powder: Laura Mercier Translucent Loose Setting Powder

Classic for a reason. I press, not swipe, with a puff. It kept my forehead from getting shiny at a Dodgers game. No under-skin bumps later that week.

Blush: Tower 28 BeachPlease (Shade: Magic Hour)

Cream blush that doesn’t feel greasy. I wore it three days straight. No surprise breakouts on the apples of my cheeks, which is very rare for me with creams. Color looks like a warm, just-took-a-walk flush.

Bronzer: Benefit Hoola (Original)

Simple, matte, and boring in a good way. No shimmer to irritate. I dust it along my temples and under cheekbones. Zero drama from my skin. It even pulled its weight when I spent a month channeling a Ruby Rose-esque vibe—here’s how that experiment went.

Setting Spray: Urban Decay All Nighter

It holds things in place. It does have alcohol, so I keep it off open spots. No new clogs, but I use it only on long days or events.

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The Flops: What Broke Me Out (Or Just Bugged Me)

• RMS Living Luminizer: Pretty glow, but it has coconut oil. My cheeks sprouted tiny bumps in 24 hours.
• Heavy stick foundations (I tried two drugstore ones): Looked great at first, then hello, clogged chin by day three.
• Fragrant glowy primers: One made my nose itch and left two whiteheads near my nostrils. Cute look? Not really.

Need more examples of sneaky breakout-causing formulas? I found this thorough list of makeup to avoid if you’re acne-prone super helpful.

I wish these worked. They didn’t. I moved on.

My Simple Acne-Safe Routine That I Repeat

• Morning: gentle gel cleanser, light moisturizer, mineral sunscreen
• Wait 10 minutes
• Primer (T-zone only)
• Powder foundation or tinted sunscreen
• Spot concealer
• Light blush, quick bronzer
• Set with powder; spray if I need it to last

Removal at night is the secret sauce. I use an oil cleanser, then a gentle wash (CeraVe Hydrating Cream-to-Foam over Vanicream Gentle Cleanser is my tag team). I don’t scrub. I pat dry. I keep it boring.

Small Habits That Helped More Than I Thought

• I clean my brushes every Sunday night with unscented soap. My skin chilled out after I made this a real habit.
• I change my pillowcase twice a week. I know, sounds extra. But it helped my cheeks.
• I keep my fingers off my face while working. Hard, but worth it.
• I skip makeup on active cysts. A tiny bit of concealer around, not on, the spot. It heals faster for me.
• I road-tested a bunch of celebrity hacks to see which ones helped (spoiler: some really did); the play-by-play lives right here.

If you ever feel like trading breakout tales or swapping shade matches in real time, Kik has some surprisingly active acne-safe makeup chat groups. You can browse a regularly updated directory of beauty-minded handles at SextLocal’s Kik usernames list—the page tags users by interests so you can jump straight into skincare conversations and dodge the off-topic spam.

Ingredient Notes I Watch For

This is my personal list, not a rulebook:

• Coconut oil, algae extract, and cocoa butter = usually a no for me
• Isopropyl myristate and myristyl myristate = often clogging on my chin
• Heavy fragrance = itch city

If you’re trying to make your own no-go list, dermatologists outline the eight worst ingredients for acne-prone skin in this quick explainer.

Dimethicone? Fine on my skin. Silicones don’t clog me by themselves. Everyone’s different, though.
When I’m double-checking a complicated INCI list, I like to scan the raw-material breakdowns on Girindus first—it’s a quick way to spot potential irritants before they ever meet my face.

Real-Life Wear Tests

• Office day with AC: BareMinerals + Hourglass primer lasted 9 hours. No shine, no new bumps.
• Hot yoga: NARS spot concealer stayed; powder didn’t. No clogs the next day.
• Mask commute: Tower 28 tint rubbed off a little, but my skin stayed calm all week.
• Game night snacks and stress: Laura Mercier powder kept it together. One small whitehead on my chin, which I blame on chips and touching my face.

Quick Drugstore Bits That Didn’t Freak Out My Skin

• Almay Clear Complexion Concealer (with a touch of salicylic acid): Nice on angry spots.
• Neutrogena Healthy Skin Pressed Powder: Light, not flat, no bumps after three uses.

They’re not perfect, but they’re safe enough for me on busy days.

My Bottom Line

Makeup didn’t “fix” my acne. It just stopped making it worse. That felt huge. If your skin acts like mine, start light, patch test, and keep your tools clean. BareMinerals for base, Tower 28 for tint

I’m Kayla, and I care about collarbones more than I thought I would. Funny, right? But hear me out. A clear collarbone line makes tops sit better. Photos look sharper. I feel taller. Not new bones. Just better lines.

I also dove into an honest take on clavicular looksmax that laid out plenty of before-and-after context, which pushed me to start testing things on myself.

I tried stuff. Real stuff. At my desk. At the gym. On nights out. Some things worked fast. Some things were meh. Here’s my plain, first-person review.

Why I Started

I work on a laptop all day. My shoulders round in. My neck gets tight. In photos, my collarbones vanish. Then my cousin’s wedding came. I wore a square-neck dress. I wanted that simple clavicle pop.

So I got curious and a little nerdy. Could I change the “frame” without going wild? Short answer: yes, at least a bit.

What Actually Made My Collarbones Pop

• Posture cues that stick (not just a “sit up” minute)
• Light shoulder work that opens the chest (I started with these simple collar bone exercises)
• A tiny touch of glow and shade on skin

I know—that sounds basic. But the mix matters.

The Gear I Used (and How It Felt)

1. Upright GO 2 posture trainer
   I used this little sticker on my upper back, three weeks straight. It buzzes when I slouch. It’s simple. It is also annoying. But it trained me. By week two, I sat tall without thinking. In my Zoom square, my neck looked longer. My collarbones showed even in a plain tee. The adhesive held up in August heat in Brooklyn, which shocked me.

2. Sparthos posture brace
   I wore this while cooking or folding laundry. Twenty minutes at a time. It pulls the shoulders back a bit—scapular retraction, in gym talk. Not comfy for long sits. But it taught my body what “open” feels like. My boyfriend said, “You look taller.” I took that as a win.

3. TheraBand (green) and a cheap door anchor
   I did two moves, almost daily:

• Face pulls at eye level. 2 sets of 12. Slow.
• Band pull-aparts. 2 sets of 15.

You know what? These woke up my mid-back. My chest felt less tight. The acromion area (top of the shoulder) felt open. My collarbone line showed up more in tank tops. Not huge, but clear.

4. Fenty Body Lava and an e.l.f. Halo Glow Contour Wand
   This is makeup, not magic. But wow, it helps. I do a light stripe of contour under the collarbone, then a tiny dab of glow right on top. Blend with my fingers. In early evening light, it reads as “bone.” In flash photos, it can read as “glitter,” so go easy. If you’re ever torn on whether to tackle hair or complexion first, this side-by-side test on doing hair or makeup first gave me a workflow that keeps the shimmer intact.

Some of my shimmer tricks also came straight from this roundup of celebrity makeup tips tested on a real face, which translates surprisingly well to the collarbone area.

5. Clothes that frame, not hide
   A boat neck or square neck makes the line pop. My Zara boat-neck sweater? Chef’s kiss. Thin straps help, too. I also tried a SKIMS bandeau for a clean upper chest. No lines. No straps cutting into the area.

6. Salt and water (the boring part)
   The day before a big event, I skip super salty takeout and drink steady water. Not crazy. Just steady. At my friend Lina’s rooftop party, my collarbones looked crisp in photos because I wasn’t puffy from ramen. Simple, but it works for me.

If you want to dig into the science side of tissue support and recovery, Girindus has some surprisingly readable write-ups.

What Didn’t Do Much

• Heavy shrugs. They built traps and ate my neck. My clavicle line looked softer.
• Deep chest stretches only. Felt good, but didn’t last unless I did the band work, too.
• Extreme dieting. No thanks. My face lost glow faster than my collarbones gained shape.

Real Moments That Sold Me

• The wedding test: Square-neck dress, light contour, Upright buzz earlier that day. In the photos, my collarbones showed without me trying to “pose.” I even relaxed my shoulders. Big deal for me.
• Subway snapshot: Tank top, no makeup, band work the day before. My friend caught a candid pic. The line was there. Soft but real.
• Office chair day: I slumped for three hours and then stood up. No clavicle. I reset with three sets of pull-aparts, took a walk, and boom—it came back. Not dramatic, but visible.

Feeling more confident about how my collarbones framed my neckline also nudged me to get out of the house and mingle. If you’re ready to take your refreshed posture to real-world meet-ups, the casual-dating hub FuckLocal makes it super easy to connect with nearby singles for low-pressure drinks or rooftop vibes—so you can show off that newly defined neckline where it counts.

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The Week Plan That Stuck

• Daily: 5 minutes of band work. Face pulls and pull-aparts.
• Every other day: Wear the Sparthos brace for 20 minutes while I do chores.
• Work hours: Upright GO 2 for the first two hours. After that, my brain gets cranky.
• Going out: Tiny contour under the collarbone. Dab of glow on top. Boat neck top if I can.

Once or twice a week, I swap the bands for a quick yoga flow that opens the shoulders and stretches the chest—moves like cat-cow, bridge, and supported fish from this lineup of yoga poses for a defined collarbone.

It sounds fussy. It’s not. It’s a habit now, like flossing but for your frame.

Quick Thoughts on Filler or Surgery

I asked my derm about filler along the collarbone. She said some people do it. I passed. Needles near bone? Not for me. If you’re thinking about it, talk with a licensed pro, not a random forum. I’m happy with posture, bands, and makeup.

Pros and Cons From My Own Use

Pros

• Low effort, real change in photos and mirrors
• Cheap tools last forever
• Posture carryover helps my neck pain, too

Cons

• Posture tech can be annoying
• Braces aren’t cute; I hide them at home
• Makeup can look fake under flash if heavy

Final Word

Clavicular looksmax isn’t a miracle. It’s a frame tweak. A few tiny habits, a few smart products, and a soft glow. On good days, my collarbones say, “Hey, I’m here.” On lazy days, they whisper. Either way, I feel more put together.

And honestly, that feeling? That’s the best part.

I’m Kayla. I have combo skin, a shiny T-zone, and one little dry patch near my nose that loves to act up. I wear makeup for school drop-off, Zoom calls, and weddings where my cousin cries on my shoulder. So yeah—I put this stuff through real life.

Here’s what actually worked on my face, and what didn’t. I’ll keep it real and simple. For the full blow-by-blow of my multi-week experiment, you can peek at the complete diary of swatches and wear tests I logged when I tried a bunch of makeup so you don’t have to.

For a nerdy peek into how the ingredients in our favorite products are actually made, this concise lab-side breakdown walks through the science behind pigments, binders, and all those texture-changing actives.

The Base Crew: Primers and Foundations

Let me explain. Your base sets the vibe. If the base goes weird, everything else looks weird.

• e.l.f. Putty Primer: This smooths pores around my nose. It feels like soft clay. If I use a thick cream first, it pills. So I use a light gel under it.
• Milk Hydro Grip: Sticky in a good way. My makeup holds on, even on hot bus stop mornings. It can ball up if I layer it over silicone stuff. I learned that the hard way.

Now, foundation types I actually wore:

• Skin tint: ILIA Super Serum Skin Tint feels dewy. Light coverage. It looks like skin. On hot days it slides off by 2 pm, so I keep blot papers.
• Liquid: Maybelline Fit Me Matte + Poreless is my trusty drugstore pick. Shade 220 matches me in summer. It keeps oil down, but it can cling to that dry patch. I press in a tiny bit of face oil first.
• Stick: Hourglass Vanish Stick is fast. Swipe, swipe, blend. Full coverage in 30 seconds. If I build it up, it gets heavy by noon. I use less than I think I need.
• Powder: L’Oréal Infallible Fresh Wear Powder Foundation saves me in July. Quick, matte, and strong. It can look flat, so I add a cream blush to bring life back.

Small tip: thin layers beat one thick coat. I use a damp sponge when I need soft edges, and a brush when I want more coverage.

Quick note for my fellow combo-skin crew: Byrdie’s concise roundup of the best foundations for combination skin lines up eerily well with my own hits and misses, while Real Simple’s in-depth guide to their picks for the best foundation for combination skin gave me a few new bottles to swatch next.

If your skin freaks out at the mere hint of certain ingredients, my notes on acne-safe makeup I actually wear (and what gave me zits) might save you some whiteheads.

Concealer Corner (AKA My Sleep Helper)

• NARS Radiant Creamy Concealer: Creamy, blends easy. If I pile it on, it creases. One dot per inner corner, then tap with ring finger. Done.
• Maybelline Instant Age Rewind: The sponge tip looks odd but it’s fast. I twist once and do three small dots. It does smell a bit makeup-y.
• Kosas Revealer: Bright and hydrating. It has a light sweet scent. Under eyes look fresh, but on a pimple it can look shiny. I set it with a tiny bit of powder.

Brows, But Make It Chill

I have soft, sparse brows. Nothing wild.

• Anastasia Brow Wiz: Super fine tip. I draw hair-like strokes. Don’t press hard. I snapped a couple leads before I learned.
• Glossier Boy Brow: Fluffy, soft hold. Perfect for errands. By late afternoon, it relaxes. Not crunchy.
• e.l.f. Brow Lift: Clear and strong. It gives that “laminated” look. If I use too much, it flakes a little. I scoop a rice-grain size. That’s enough.

During my month-long experiment channeling Ruby Rose’s signature vibe, I learned that fluffy but sharp brows are half the battle—full recap is over in the Ruby Rose makeup challenge if you’re curious.

Eyes: Liner, Lids, and Lashes

Here’s the thing: my eyes water when the wind hits. So smudge-proof matters.

• Liner: NYX Epic Ink is easy to flick. It can bleed if my lids are oily, so I dust a little powder first. For long days, Maybelline Eye Studio Gel Liner lasts, but the pot dries if I leave it open. Cap it fast.

I put a stack of red-carpet eyeliner hacks to the test in my roundup of celebrity makeup tips on a real face—spoiler: only two actually held up to school-run humidity.

• Shadow: Urban Decay Naked3 gives soft rosy looks. Pretty for brunch. Some shades have fallout, so I tap the brush. e.l.f. Bite-Size quads are cheap and handy. Some shades hit hard, some are meh—kind of a fun surprise. Laura Mercier Caviar Stick in Copper is my lazy day hero. Swipe, smudge, done. It sets fast, so work one eye at a time.
• Mascara: L’Oréal Lash Paradise gives big volume. By 4 pm it smudges on me if I don’t set my under-eyes. Thrive Liquid Lash Extensions (a tubing mascara) never smudges; it comes off in “tubes” in warm water. It looks clean, not chunky. Maybelline Sky High adds length without weighing my lashes down.

Side note: curling my lashes first changes the whole mood. Ten seconds makes me look awake, even when I’m not.

Cheeks: Color That Looks Like You

• Blush: Rare Beauty Soft Pinch Liquid Blush is wild. One tiny dot is plenty. It lasts through heat and hugs. If I put it over heavy powder, it goes patchy. So I do cream on cream. Milani Baked Blush in Luminoso gives a warm glow. It’s a peachy pick-me-up.
• Bronzer: Benefit Hoola is classic. On me, it can read a bit muddy if I use too much. Light hand, big brush. Physicians Formula Butter Bronzer blends like a dream and smells like coconut. The pan cracks if I toss it around, so I baby it.
• Highlighter: Wet n Wild Megaglo in Precious Petals is bright. Like, “hello, cheekbones.” It can show texture, so I keep it on the tops only. Hourglass Ambient Lighting Powder is soft and fancy. Pricey, yes. But it blurs a bit and never looks harsh.

Lips: Matte, Gloss, Or Just Comfy

• Matte lipstick: MAC Ruby Woo is that bold red. It stays, but it’s dry. I add balm before. Maybelline SuperStay Ink Crayon lasts through coffee, but by hour six I feel the dryness.
• Gloss: Fenty Gloss Bomb feels smooth, not sticky. It smells a little sweet. On windy days my hair still finds it—gloss gonna gloss. NYX Butter Gloss is a classic cheap win. A little sticky, but the colors are cute.
• Balm and tint: Laneige Lip Glowy Balm is soft and shiny. I keep it in my purse. Burt’s Bees Tinted Balm looks natural. It feels a bit waxy at first, then warms up.

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A quick helper: NYX Slim Lip Pencil in Nude Truffle lines clean and sharp. It needs sharpening, which I forget until it’s tiny and dull. Then I mutter and go find the sharpener.

Set It And Don’t Sweat It

• Powder: Laura Mercier Translucent Loose Setting Powder smooths everything. Under my eyes it can look dry, so I use the tiniest dusting. Coty Airspun sets like cement but the scent is strong. My grandma loved it. Kinda sweet memory, but also… whew.
• Spray: Urban Decay All Nighter locks things in place. It smells a bit like a hair salon puff, but it works. e.l.f. Stay All Night has a fine mist and a softer hold. Good for daily wear

I’ve got sensitive eyes. The kind that water when the wind sneezes. Spring pollen? Rough. Air-conditioned office? Also rough. So, yeah—I’ve tried a lot of eye makeup. Some made me cry (literally). Some felt like a hug. If you want the full play-by-play, I rounded up every winner in this deep dive on eye makeup for sensitive eyes.

Here’s what stuck, what failed me, and how I get through a long day without red, itchy lids.

Quick backstory (the “oh no” moment)

One hot July, I wore a sparkly cream shadow to a picnic. It looked cute for, like, 20 minutes. Then the sting started, my eyes teared up, and the shimmer slid into every corner. I spent the rest of the day blotting with napkins. Lesson learned: shimmer plus sweat equals chaos for me.

What sets my eyes off

• Heavy fragrance (even “natural” oils can bug me)
• Chunky glitter that sheds
• Fiber mascaras that flake by noon
• Harsh removers and scrubby pads
• Waterproof formulas that need three rounds to come off

Before I toss anything into my basket, I skim this straight-talk resource on eye-safe formulas that breaks down which additives are most likely to irritate sensitive lids.

I wear contacts some days. That makes any flake feel like a boulder.

The keepers in my bag (used, loved, and repurchased)

• Clinique High Impact Mascara: I wore this through a full workday, a grocery run, and bedtime reading. No sting. No flakes. It washes off with micellar water. Not the most dramatic, but my eyes don’t hate me.

• Tower 28 MakeWaves Mascara: On my soccer-mom Saturdays, this gives more curl and a bit more pop. It’s gentle, and I can remove it with warm water and a soft cloth. If your eyes tear in wind, this holds up okay.

• Blinc Original Tubing Mascara: On allergy days, tubing mascara is my safe zone. It forms little “tubes” that slide off with water. No dark smears under my eyes. Downside: it can feel a bit dry by evening.

• Physician’s Formula Eye Booster (liquid liner): The brush tip is steady, the line stays put, and it doesn’t burn my lash line. I’ve worn it on sweaty school pick-ups with no raccoon eyes.

• bareMinerals pressed neutrals: The matte shades don’t itch or shed. I keep a soft taupe and a warm brown for fast mornings. I can blend with a finger and not worry about fallout.

• Bioderma Sensibio H2O (remover): This is my truce with makeup. A cotton pad, a slow press, and my eyes don’t get mad. No rubbing. I follow with cool water.

• Clinique Take The Day Off Balm (for heavy days): If I wore long wear liner, this melts it. I keep it away from the waterline, then rinse well.

If you want to know why tubing mascaras are such a lifesaver for those of us with watery or sensitive eyes, Marie Claire’s deep dive into their advantages breaks it all down in plain English, ingredients and all. Read it here.

Near misses (good… but not for my eyes)

I test plenty, because I tried a bunch of makeup so you don’t have to—yet a few almost made the cut.

• Thrive Causemetics Liquid Lash Extensions: Looks great at first. On me, tiny fibers shed by late afternoon and make my contacts cranky. If you don’t wear contacts, you may love it.

• Glitter gel shadows (various): Fun for a party, risky for me. The micro-shimmer wanders. My eyes tingle within an hour.

• Kosas 10-Second liquid shadow: Pretty, fast, but the dry down stung my lids. Might be fine for you; I pass.

My simple, no-tears routine

1. Clean, dry lids. If pollen’s high, I rinse with cool water first.
2. Tiny pat of eye primer or a bit of face powder on lids. Keeps things steady.
3. Matte shadow—taupe all over, deeper brown at the crease. Fingers or a soft brush.
4. Thin line of Physician’s Formula at the lash base. I skip the inner corner.
5. One coat of Clinique High Impact or Tower 28. I wiggle at the base and stop. No piling on.
6. Optional: a flesh-tone liner on the lower waterline (mine is Almay). Brightens without sting.

At night, micellar pad press, 10 seconds, swipe down. If I wore tubing mascara, I use warm water and gentle pressure. No scrubbing.

Tiny tricks that saved me

• Curl lashes. It keeps mascara off my eyeballs when they water.
• Skip tightlining on bad allergy days. It looks nice, but it can trap gunk.
• Clean brushes weekly. I use a drop of baby shampoo and let them air dry.
• Carry single-use, preservative-free eye drops (Refresh or Systane). One drop, blink, done.
• Patch test new stuff on the outer corner for a day before a big event. I learned the hard way.

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A quick word on lash glue

If you wear falsies, go latex-free. I’ve used Duo Brush-On (latex-free) and Velour’s white glue with fewer tears. Still, I save lashes for short events, not all-day wear.

What I reach for when my eyes are already mad

• Blinc tubing mascara (one light coat)
• No liner—just curl and go
• bareMinerals matte shadow in a soft wash
• Cool compress before makeup and micellar only at night

You know what? Simple looks fresh. And it doesn’t hurt.

Final thoughts

Sensitive eyes don’t mean boring makeup. It just means smart choices. Fragrance-free helps. Tubing helps. Soft mattes help. And removal matters as much as the product.

If you’re curious how these gentle favorites compare to the broader mascara universe, Marie Claire’s 2025 roundup of the 20 best formulas—from lengthening to curling—offers a handy benchmark before your next Sephora run. Check out the full list.

I still test new things—carefully. But these picks keep me comfy, even in spring wind and long school concerts. If your eyes act up like mine, start gentle, keep it clean, and stop at one coat. Bright eyes beat bold liner any day. And if clogged pores are more your speed bump, here’s the lineup of acne-safe makeup I actually wear that never gives me zits.

Note: This is a fictional, first-person review written for creative fun.
Want even more made-up misadventures? Check out this longer powder-puff makeup chronicle for extra giggles.

My skin, my mess, my goal

I’ve got combo skin. Shiny T-zone. Dry cheeks. Little lines under my eyes that love to crease. I want a smooth glow, not a chalky mask. Easy ask, right?

So I reached for powder puffs. Not just one. A few. I wanted to see how they stack up when life gets busy—school runs, a sweaty walk, even a long Zoom day.

The lineup I “used” in this story

• Beautyblender Power Pocket Puff (the pink one with the finger strap)
• Laura Mercier Velour Puff (soft, plush, classic)
• e.l.f. Halo Glow Powder Puff (triangle, firm edge)
• A cheap 6-pack of triangle puffs from Amazon (black, velour, very soft)

I paired them with two powders: Laura Mercier Translucent and e.l.f. Halo Glow Setting Powder. One matte, one glow-y. I switched back and forth.
Side note: if you’re curious how ditching talc altogether feels, here’s what happened when I switched to talc-free makeup for a month.

The quick how-to that saved me

• I pick up a tiny bit of powder.
• Tap the extra on the back of my hand. Like seasoning food—less is more.
• Fold the puff. Press and roll on the skin. No rubbing.
• Use the pointy tip around the nose and under the eyes.
• If I’m shiny by noon, I blot with a tissue first. Then press more powder.

Press, don’t swipe. That part matters.

(I picked up the “press, don’t swipe” mantra after scrolling through these smart powder-puff tips that break down exactly why the technique works.)

Real-life checks (in the story)

• Hot grocery run: The e.l.f. triangle puff kept my nose matte for three hours. Not bad. My forehead held up too, but I could see a little powder near my brows if I looked close.
• Long Zoom day: The Beautyblender puff gave me the smoothest under-eye. No weird cake lines. I even smiled big to test it. Still soft.
• Dinner with bright lights: The Laura Mercier puff made my cheeks look airbrushed. Kind of plush and luxe. But I used too much once and, oof, it looked flat. A mist fixed it fast.

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How each puff felt in hand

• Beautyblender Power Pocket Puff: The strap kept it steady. Thin but dense. It hugged the under-eye area so well. It’s like a tiny pillow with a grip. Great for detail work. (If you want the brand’s own demo, their official how-to shows the same press-and-roll motion.)
• Laura Mercier Velour Puff: Soft and fuzzy. Big enough for the whole face. I did the press-and-roll across the cheeks, and it blurred pores like magic. But it can overdo it if you’re heavy-handed.
• e.l.f. Halo Glow Powder Puff (triangle): Sharp edges. The point fits the sides of my nose and that little dip by my inner eye. It lays down powder fast, so I go light.
• Amazon triangle puffs: So many in a pack. A bit floppier, but very gentle. Good for touch-ups. I kept one in my bag and didn’t stress if it got lost.

What surprised me

You know what? Less powder works better with puffs. When I loaded them up, my face looked pasty. When I barely tapped, I got that soft cloud finish. Smooth, not dull. Big difference. (I basically tried a bunch of products so you don’t have to—peep this thorough makeup road-test if you love deep dives.)

Also, the “press and roll” move beats “pat pat pat” for me. It blends the powder into skin. It’s like rolling a tiny paint roller over tiny hills.

If you're curious about the science behind why different puff materials behave so differently, check out the concise explainer on Girindus for a quick nerdy read.

Shine vs. dryness: what worked

• Oily T-zone: I set the center of my face with the e.l.f. triangle puff. Just the center. That kept the glow on my cheeks and stopped the shiny nose.
• Dry cheeks: I used the Beautyblender puff with whatever was left on it. No fresh powder. That way, my blush still looked alive.
• Under eyes: Laura Mercier powder + the Beautyblender puff. Tap the extra off your hand first. Then press. No cracking. No weird white flash.

If your skin is breakout-prone, you might also skim this guide to acne-safe makeup that won’t clog pores.

Little wins and little gripes

• Wins

  • Pores looked smaller, fast.
  • My makeup lasted longer without looking heavy.
  • The triangle shape made it easy to reach tricky spots.

• Gripes

  • Too much powder looks flat, fast. Easy to mess up.
  • The big Laura Mercier puff needs a wash more often. It holds on to product.
  • Some cheap puffs shed a tiny bit of fuzz. Not a lot, but I saw it.

Cleaning that actually works

I wash puffs with brush soap or a little dish soap. Warm water. Squeeze, rinse, squeeze. Lay flat on a towel. They dry by morning. If I’m lazy, I rotate puffs so I don’t use a damp one.

Quick picks by need

• Best for under-eye smoothing: Beautyblender Power Pocket Puff
• Best for full-face blur: Laura Mercier Velour Puff
• Best budget and touch-ups: Amazon triangle puffs (6-pack style)
• Best for shine control spots: e.l.f. Halo Glow Powder Puff

A tiny trick I keep repeating

Tap off extra on the back of your hand. Then press and roll. Then stop. Don’t keep adding. If you want glow back, mist once. Done.

Final say

Powder puffs aren’t flashy, but they make a big change. They turn “powdery” into “polished.” Use less, press more, and let your skin peek through. That’s the sweet spot. And if you only grab one? Get a triangle puff. It’s cheap, it fits everywhere, and it works.

I was pregnant, tired, and weirdly picky about smells. My nose turned into a guard dog. One whiff of strong scent and I felt queasy. So I rebuilt my makeup bag with calm, simple stuff. Things that didn’t sting, didn’t smell loud, and didn’t make my skin freak out.

I’m not a doctor—just a mom who asked her OB a bunch of questions and patch-tested like it was my job. Here’s what worked for me, what didn’t, and a few little lessons I learned along the way. If you’re curious about digging deeper into what’s considered pregnancy-safe, the ingredient glossaries at Girindus guided a lot of my decisions.
They even shared a detailed post about every pregnancy-safe product they personally tested, which you can peek at right here.

My simple ground rules

• I skipped retinoids and strong fragrance.
• I leaned toward mineral SPF. My skin liked zinc.
• I used gentle removers so my face didn’t get angry.
• I did tiny patch tests first. Always.

You know what? Those four things saved me a lot of drama.

Base that behaved: Ilia Super Serum Skin Tint SPF 40

This one carried me through my second trimester. It’s a light, glowy tint with mineral SPF. If you need a deep dive, Allure’s review breaks down every texture detail and shade shift.

• What I liked: It evened out my melasma shadows, looked dewy, and didn’t have a heavy smell. My skin felt calm.
• What bugged me: It stays a bit tacky. If I used a silicone primer, it pilled. I had to set it with powder on my T-zone.

On hot days, I blotted once at lunch. Quick fix. I also skimmed WHO Magazine’s take on the tint before committing, and their thoughts pretty much echoed my own.

Runner-up base: Saie Slip Tint SPF 35

On days my face felt dry, this was perfect. Cozy, skin-like, and soft.

• What I liked: Mineral SPF, comfy glow, no scent punch.
• What bugged me: It transfers to collars if I’m huggy. Not a long-wear champ.

I wore it to my OB visits. Looked fresh, not overdone.

Concealer: Maybelline Fit Me and NARS Radiant Creamy

I used both, for different moods.

• Maybelline Fit Me: Light, easy, no strong scent. Good for quick spot work.
• NARS Radiant Creamy: More coverage under my eyes. It can crease if I pile it on, so I tap a tiny bit and set with powder.

If I cried at a sappy ad (hormones!), NARS held up better.

Blush that never made me itch: Tower 28 BeachPlease (Magic Hour)

Creamy, blendy, and kind to sensitive skin. I tapped it on with fingers.

• What I liked: Soft flush that looks like a nap and a walk. No sting.
• What bugged me: It fades by late day. I keep it in my bag and boop a little more on.

Lips I kept reapplying on purpose: Tower 28 ShineOn Lip Jelly (Chill)

No heavy flavor. No perfume cloud. It’s cushiony and looks juicy.

• What I liked: Feels like a hug for dry lips.
• What bugged me: It doesn’t last long, but I don’t mind. It’s pocket-friendly.

On very queasy days, anything minty turned me green. This did not.

Mascara that didn’t smudge on my naps: Thrive Causemetics Liquid Lash Extensions

It’s a tubing mascara, so it comes off with warm water. No harsh rubbing.

• What I liked: Long, neat lashes. No flakes on my cheeks.
• What bugged me: If I used an oil cleanser first, it broke down weird. Water worked best.

Tip: Press a warm washcloth on your lashes and wiggle. The “tubes” slide right off.

Eyeliner that stayed put: Physicians Formula Eye Booster

Soft brush tip. No sting, no perfume.

• What I liked: Clean, steady line for tired eyes.
• What bugged me: The brush frays after a couple months. Still worth it.

I wore the brown shade to look awake but not harsh.

Brows that mind their manners: e.l.f. Brow Lift (clear)

It’s a clear gel-wax. No scent, strong hold.

• What I liked: Fluffy brows in 20 seconds.
• What bugged me: If I used too much, I got a tiny white cast. Light hand solves it.

Setting powder that fixed the tacky stuff: Cover FX Perfect Setting Powder

Fine and talc-free. Helps that Ilia tint behave.
If you’ve ever wondered what happens when you ditch talc completely, I tried it for a month—spoiler: it was revealing—and summed it up in this diary.

• What I liked: No flashback in photos. Soft, not chalky.
• What bugged me: Messy lid. I do the “tap into the cap” trick.

I focus on the sides of my nose and chin. Done.

What I skipped (for me)

• Retinoids and retinyl palmitate in face makeup or primers
• Strongly scented sprays (Urban Decay All Nighter smelled sharp to me, so I passed)
• Heavy salicylic acid primers
• Chemical sunscreens that felt stingy on my skin

Again, that’s just me and my skin. I ran choices by my OB when unsure.

Removal that didn’t make me red: Bioderma + Vanicream

Night routine was simple.

• First pass: Bioderma Sensibio H2O on a cotton pad. Melts off mascara tubes and base.
• Second pass: Vanicream Gentle Facial Cleanser. No fragrance, no fuss.

My face felt clean, not squeaky.

Real life tests that mattered

• Workdays under bright lights: Ilia + light powder stayed fresh till 3 pm. Blot once and it’s fine.
• Hot car school pickup: Thrive mascara didn’t smear. Big win.
• Grocery store perfume aisle sneak attack: Tower 28 lip and blush didn’t add to the scent storm.
• Ultrasound day photos: NARS under eyes, Tower 28 blush. I looked alive, even after a 5 am snack raid.

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Little tips I wish I’d heard sooner

• Keep a tiny kit: tint, concealer, blush, mascara, lip. That’s it.
• Fingers are tools. Warmth helps cream products melt in.
• Shade match in daylight, not bathroom lights.
• If a product smells loud to you, it’s a no. Your nose knows.

Hormonal acne was another curveball, so I kept a running list of color cosmetics that didn’t clog me; I logged every winner (and the ones that betrayed me with zits) in this acne-safe roundup.

Quick winners and quirks

• Most used: Ilia Skin Tint, Tower 28 Blush, Thrive Mascara
• Budget hero: Maybelline Fit Me Concealer
• Gentle duo: Bioderma + Vanicream
• Fussy but pretty: Saie Slip Tint (watch the transfer)
• Secret workhorse: Cover FX powder on the T-zone

Final take

Pregnancy made me change my pace. Slower, softer, simpler. These picks kept my skin calm and my stomach happy. They didn’t try to do too much—just enough. If you’re sorting your own bag, patch test, ask your doctor when you’re unsure, and trust your senses. If it smells off, feels stingy, or looks heavy, move on.

Simple can be lovely. And honestly, that tiny blush stick? It carried me through.

I’m Kayla, and I treat my birthday like a beauty scavenger hunt. Free gifts. Tiny tubes. Cute bags. I’m not mad about it.

This year, I planned a loop: Sephora, Ulta, MAC, Benefit, and one department store counter. I wore comfy shoes, packed a snack, and kept my ID handy. Did it feel extra? Sure. But you know what? It was fun.

Here’s exactly what I got, how it wore, and what was worth the trip.
If you’re mapping out your own birthday beauty run, this handy loyalty-program cheat sheet from Girindus lays out which stores give the best freebies and how to claim them efficiently.

Stop 1: Sephora — The Little Gift With Big Hype

I’ve been a Beauty Insider forever, so I walked in and said, “Hi! I’m here for my birthday gift.” No purchase needed. They asked for my phone number and ID. Smooth.

What I picked:

• A mini NARS duo with the famous peachy blush and a tiny lipstick.

How it wore:

• The blush gave me a soft, warm glow. Like I’d slept well, even though I hadn’t.
• The lipstick felt creamy, not sticky. It faded nice, not patchy.

What my friend grabbed:

• The Laneige set with the lip mask. If your lips get dry, that one’s clutch.

The catch:

• Choices are limited and can sell out by mid-month. Go early if you’re picky.

Tiny tip:

• Ask them to sanitize and swatch on your hand if you’re unsure about shade. The lights can be tricky.

Stop 2: Ulta — Month-Long Goodies And Points

I’m a Diamond member at Ulta, so I got a $10 birthday coupon by email and 2x points the whole month. That part always feels like a little hug.

In-store birthday gift:

• A mini Tarte mascara (the cute gold tube). Lifted well. No flakes. But after my sweaty grocery run, I saw a tiny smudge under one eye. Not awful—just watch if you rub your eyes.

What I liked:

• The cashier pulled up my account fast. No fuss. “Happy Birthday!” and boom, done.
• If the gift is out of stock, ask them to add it to your next online order. I’ve had them do that before.

What I didn’t love:

• The gift changes each month. If you don’t like that month’s brand, well, tough luck. I still use the mascara for travel.

Stop 3: MAC — A Small Spray That Saves Dry Makeup

MAC’s rewards program gave me a mini Fix+ setting spray. I walked out glowing, not greasy. The soft scent is like tea water and calm vibes.

How I used it:

• I sprayed once before makeup and once after. My base looked less powdery, more skin-like. It also helped melt my blush into my face, not sit on top like chalk.

Heads-up:

• It’s small. Like, tuck-in-your-clutch small. But it works when your face needs a reset.

What the artist did:

• A quick shade match for Studio Fix. No pressure to buy, which I respect on a budget day.

Stop 4: Benefit Brow Bar — Free Brow Arch? Yes, Please

I booked ahead, showed my ID, and got a clean brow wax in 12 minutes. They used cooling gel after, so the redness went down fast. My arches looked awake, not sharp or scary.

Worth it?

• Yep. That service runs around twenty bucks, so getting it free felt like a tiny win.

Note:

• Some locations changed the rules. Call first. Ask, “Do you still offer the free birthday brow?” Saves a trip.

Bonus Stop: A Quick Counter Glow

I popped by the Charlotte Tilbury counter at Nordstrom. I said, “It’s my birthday. Can I try a quick glow look?” The artist dabbed on highlighter, swatched a rosy nude lip, and sent me off with a tiny sample pot. No pressure, just chatty and kind. I ended up buying a liner because, well, it was my birthday. And the brown shade matched my cozy sweater. Latte makeup mood, complete.

If you’d rather master a party-ready face at home, Charlotte Tilbury's official website offers a comprehensive birthday makeup tutorial, providing step-by-step guidance to achieve a radiant look for your special day.

Visiting the Pacific Northwest soon? The Nordstrom Portland location features a dedicated Charlotte Tilbury counter, where you can discover and experience their range of makeup and skincare offerings.

Was It Worth The Time?

Short answer: Yes, for me. If you’re still on the fence, my full breakdown of free birthday makeup covers every perk in detail.

• Time spent: About two hours, plus travel.
• Value: Around $40 to $60 in minis and a brow wax.
• Joy factor: High. I felt spoiled without wrecking my wallet.

It’s not magic. Some gifts are tiny. Some shades won’t fit deep skin or very fair skin well. Stock runs out. Staff might be busy and a little rushed. But I liked the hunt, and I used most of what I got.

Real Talk: Hits And Misses

Earlier this year I went all in and tried a bunch of makeup so you don’t have to, and some of the same stand-outs resurfaced in these birthday minis.

What I loved:

• The Sephora NARS duo looked fresh and soft on my skin.
• The Ulta points stacked up, so my later hair mask was cheaper.
• The MAC spray saved my makeup on a dry, windy day.
• My brow shape looked clean and even—no angry arches.

What bugged me:

• Ulta’s mascara smudged a bit after sweat. Not tragic, just plan ahead.
• Sephora had fewer birthday gift choices than last year. I wish they kept more options in stock.
• Some counters expect you to buy after a mini look. A smile and a “Maybe next time!” works fine.

Quick Tips If You Wanna Try It

• Join all the programs at least two weeks before your birthday: Sephora, Ulta, MAC, Benefit.
• Update your birthday in the app and your email too.
• Bring your ID. They do check.
• Go midweek or early. Saturdays get wild.
• Be kind to staff. A warm tone gets you good help.
• Keep a small pouch in your bag for minis, so stuff doesn’t roll around.
• Patch test if you have sensitive skin. I learned that the hard way once—red nose, not cute.
• Thinking about cleaner formulas? See what happened when I switched to talc-free makeup for a month before you swap your stash.

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Final Take

Free birthday makeup isn’t a jackpot. It’s more like sprinkles on a cupcake. Small, sweet, and gone fast—but it still makes the day feel special. If you like trying minis, saying hi to artists, and leaving with a fun little bag, go for it.

Next year, I’m doing it again. Same route, comfy shoes, extra lip balm. And maybe a slice of cake after the brow wax, because why not?

I’ve used coconut butter as a makeup remover for about six months now. Some nights it felt like magic. Other nights… not so much. I tried two kinds: a jar of Kopari Coconut Melt, and a pantry-style coconut butter I grabbed from a health store one rushed night. I also tested RMS Beauty Raw Coconut Cream on eye days. So yeah, I’ve had oil on my face more times than I can count.
If you want the long-form, play-by-play version of my slippery adventures, you can peek at my full coconut butter makeup remover journal.

You know what? It’s simple—scoop, melt, wipe. But it isn’t foolproof. Curious about the science of oils dissolving stubborn makeup pigments? This concise guide explains the lipophilic magic without the jargon.

How I actually use it

• I scoop a pea-size amount with clean fingers. If I’m wearing long-wear foundation, I use a grape-size.
• I rub it between my hands till it melts.
• I massage my face for about 45 seconds, gentle circles.
• I press a warm, damp washcloth on my face for 10 seconds. Then I wipe.
• I always follow with a gentle cleanser—lately CeraVe Hydrating Cleanser—so my skin doesn’t feel greasy.

If I skip that second wash, I get tiny bumps on my chin. Every time.
While it sounds counter-intuitive, lauric acid in coconut oil is also touted for its antibacterial punch against acne-causing bacteria; this overview from Healthline breaks down the current research and caveats.

The night that sold me

My cousin’s wedding went late. Full glam. I wore waterproof mascara (Maybelline Lash Sensational), winged liner, matte red lipstick (MAC Ruby Woo), and sunscreen under it all. I was tired, sticky, and ready for bed. The coconut butter melted the lipstick first. Mascara slid next. The liner took a bit of massaging, but it lifted off my lashes in little inky smudges.
If your lids complain about every mascara on the planet, my notes on eye-makeup picks for sensitive eyes might save you some stinging.

I did a warm cloth, then my gentle cleanser. No raccoon eyes when I woke up. My skin felt soft—like I’d used a rich night cream.

What I loved

• It crushes heavy makeup. Halloween face paint? Gone in two minutes. Glitter gel from a school spirit day? It loosened and slid off with a cloth. No tugging.
• My skin felt baby-soft in winter. No tight cheeks. Zero dry flakes around my nose or brows.
• It smells faintly sweet, like a beach day, but not loud.
• A jar lasts a long time. Even the small RMS tub took me many weeks.

What bugged me

• It can clog pores. On my T-zone, I got tiny white bumps if I didn’t double cleanse. My forehead is fussy.
• It can sting if it gets in your eyes. Not a burn, but a foggy, oily film. I had to blink it out, which is annoying at 11 p.m.
• Lash extensions? Don’t. Oil breaks the glue. My friend lost a chunk. We both learned fast.
• Summer heat turns it soupy. The jar leaked once in my weekender bag. Coconut-scented jeans are not cute.
• Pantry coconut butter (the kind with ground coconut meat) can feel grainy. It still removed makeup, but I had to massage longer and it left a heavier film.

Curious why some skins love coconut while others erupt? This Byrdie explainer on whether coconut oil clogs pores pulls together derm opinions and comedogenic ratings so you can decide if it’s worth the gamble.

Strange little things no one told me

• If your bathroom is cold, it can get hard and weirdly chunky. Warm it in your hands—be patient.
• If you wear contacts, take them out first. The oil film will make your lenses cloudy.
• It won’t “rinse clean” like some fancy balms. You need a cloth or a second wash. Non-negotiable.

Real test days

• Gym day mascara: I wore waterproof because I sweat like a kid at recess. The coconut butter broke it down fast, but I had to wipe twice under my eyes. No tugging though.
• Sunscreen-only beach day: It took off thick, water-resistant sunscreen better than micellar water. No rubbing my cheeks raw.
• Long shoot day at work: I had on long-wear foundation and powder. It melted off smooth, but I saw a tiny chin breakout two days later when I got lazy and skipped the second cleanse.
  If you’re breakout-prone like me, my running list of acne-safe makeup that didn’t nuke my face might come in handy.

How it compares

• Micellar water: cleaner feel, but it struggles with waterproof mascara. Lots of cotton rounds. Lots of swiping.
• Traditional cleansing balms (like Clinique Take The Day Off): less greasy feel, rinses easier, but pricier. Also fewer bumps for me.
• Makeup wipes: fast in a pinch, but rough on skin. They never get all the mascara.
  On a related note, if you’ve ever wondered what ditching talc could do for your skin, I chronicled a full month without it right here.

Little tricks that helped

• Work it into lashes with the pads of your fingers, not your nails.
• Use a soft microfiber cloth; it grabs the oil and pigment better.
• For acne-prone skin, use a gentle gel cleanser right after. No waiting. Washcloth, then cleanser.
• If the jar melts, pop it in the fridge for 10 minutes to reset.

Who should try it—and who should skip

• Dry or normal skin: Yes, especially in fall and winter. It’s like a cozy blanket.
• Heavy makeup users: Yes. It saves time and stress.
• Oily or acne-prone skin: Maybe. Patch test. Double cleanse. Watch your pores.
• Lash extension folks: Skip it.
• Super sensitive eyes: Use with care or keep it off the waterline.
  Expecting? I have a separate cheat sheet of pregnancy-safe makeup favorites if you’re trying to keep ingredients extra gentle.

One quick money note

The “beauty” jars cost more. The pantry jar costs less but feels heavier and smells more coconut-y. I liked Kopari for face days, pantry jar for sunscreen on body days. RMS is a small, easy travel size, but it still melts in heat—wrap it.

My final take

Coconut butter makeup remover is cozy and strong. It melts tough makeup with kindness. But it needs a partner cleanse, and it can be messy. I keep a jar for big makeup days and dry winter weeks. On my acne weeks, I switch to a balm that rinses cleaner.

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Would I buy again? Yes—but not as my only remover. It’s my soft, sweet backup for when I want my face to feel like Sunday morning.